Is it ever to late to have an epiphany about your relationship with your children??....Recently I have realised that I still try to
control advise my adult daughters occasionally.......always unintentionally ....but now finally understand how frustrating this must be for them. They are grown women and I need to let them make their own decisions regardless of what I think...and stop voicing my own opinions on how they do things....my comments are always efforts to help them and protect them....but it really is time to cut the apron strings and let my beautiful girls live their lives without mum's two cents worth giving them grief....let them work things out in their own way and stop trying to protect them (from whatever it is I am trying to protect them from?).....It's time to realise that perhaps mum doesn't always know best....even though she thinks she does.
|Letting go is never easy....but it feels good to finally recognise it .|